Monday, December 31, 2007

Here today, gone today!

So, our paperwork arrived this morning! Yipee! This is the BIGGIE! We were waiting on papers to arrive from Korea (Ha Mee's birth certificate and proof of gaurdianship). The US government will use this info to verify that she meets their criteria of an orphan and that it's okay for her to immigrate to the USA!!! WOW!

Since it only took about 30 minutes to fill out these forms (instead of the days and days required with other steps in our paper journey),

I quickly, but oh, so carefully, filled in every required section.... checked my work a ba-zillon times....

We said a prayer over the finished product, comissioning heavenly angels to deliver it efficiently,

AND, put it right back in the mail to Atlanta!!! As far as I know, our paperwork to bring her home is DONE!!! Now, we can just pray that it gets processed in God's timing, and WAIT a little longer..... I'm EXCITED!!!!

Sunday, December 30, 2007

Friday, December 28, 2007

It's in the mail....

Our case manager called today. Our papers have arrived from Korea! Hooray! We should get them Monday. THEN the real stuff starts!!! More then...

Thursday, December 27, 2007

Take a breather....

Set aside the holiday hustle a moment and crank this up....

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

We've got the light on....

STILL absolutely NO word from Korea :(
And we still have not finalized a name,
BUT we do have a light in your window, sweet baby girl!
It's been on since the first day we saw your picture and knew you were ours! We'll keep it on till you arrive safely home! Hugs and kisses to you tonight.....

Friday, December 21, 2007

Sophistication is overrated

So, I'm not a very sentimental type. I could honestly not put up a Christmas tree and be happy, but, I do enjoy making things look nice. I've loved making our tree elegant and sophisticated with a basic monochromatic look. All my ornaments are beige, gold, or clear. I like it that way. It "goes" with the rest of the house, ya know?? I've even been tempted to buy wrapping paper to match the tree decor... You know my type, a little, ummmm persnickety??? ( I think the word today is "anal", but I'm trying to go easy on myself here!)

Ok, well, several weeks ago my girls wanted to help decorate the tree. I was so proud of myself that I LET them. But, you get the idea, the tree was SERIOUSLY bottom heavy. All the ornaments about 3 feet up. I was even prouder of myself that I LEFT it that way (didn't rearrange after they went to bed! HUGE!) Well, today, they decided it wasn't quite festive enough, so they brought down their "dress up" box and embellished the tree with plastic necklaces, bracelets, and rings. I even saw a Polly Pocket hangin' out on the limb with the herolding angel! Since when did she ascend to such heavenly rank?
Well, now I'm really patting myself on the back. For some reason, this year it doesn't bother me.... Perhaps I'm older, perhaps just don't have the energy, perhaps thinking about Ha Mee half way around the world without her Mommy, perhaps after reading my previous post about Christmas in North Korea, things just seem like THINGS this year. And you know what.... I smile to myself as I walk by this tree! Monochromatic sophistication didn't do that for me!

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Christmas in North Korea

"Christians do reflect on the birth of Jesus Christ. Only they can't just go along to church to sing or listen to a sermon. They can't even visit one another to read the Bible together. Being a Christian in North Korea is very lonely."
Jerry Dykstra (December 18, 2007)

(Santa Ana, CA)—No bright lights, no Christmas dinner and not even a Christmas Eve service for the followers of Jesus Christ in North Korea.

This Christmas—just like any other day in the year—there are no festive lights in the streets of Pyongyang. The city is largely shrouded in darkness. North Korea is the only country in the world where the Cold War is not yet over, and one of the few countries in which it is not permitted to celebrate Christmas at all.

Yet even here, Christians find ways to celebrate Christmas. There is an active underground Church which celebrates the birth of Christ in their hearts.

"But, of course, Christians do reflect on the birth of Jesus Christ," says brother Simon, who coordinates the work of Open Doors—an international Christian ministry which strengthens and encourages persecuted believers around the globe—from a secret location. "Only they can't just go along to church to sing or listen to a sermon. They can't even visit one another to read the Bible together. Being a Christian in North Korea is very lonely."

Simon's thoughts turn to Sundays in North Korea. It happens only sporadically that Christians think it is safe enough to meet together in small groups. Usually gatherings consist of only two people.

Simon notes: "For example, a Christian goes and sits on a bench in the park. Another Christian comes and sits next to him. Sometimes it is dangerous even to speak to one another, but they know they are both Christians, and at such a time, this is enough. If there is no one around, they may be able to share a Bible verse which they have learned by heart and briefly say something about it. They also share prayer topics with each other. Then they leave one another and go and look for Christians in some other part of their town. This continues throughout Sunday. A cell group usually consists of fewer than 20 Christians who encourage and strengthen one another in this way. Besides this, there are one-to-one meetings in people's homes."

Christmas, too, is celebrated in this way. There are no Christmas services for Believers in North Korea, but a meeting with another Christian.

"Christmas is mainly celebrated in the heart of the Christian," says Simon. "Only if the whole family has turned to Christ is it possible to have something like a real gathering. For fear of retribution it is necessary to keep your faith hidden from the neighbors. It is sometimes possible to hold a meeting in remote areas with a group of 10 to 20 people. Very occasionally, it is possible for Christians to go unobtrusively into the mountains and to hold a 'service' at a secret location. Then there might be as many as 60 or 70 North Koreans gathered together."

Just like on other days of the year, at Christmas time there will be Christians who perish in the death camps of North Korea, ranked No. 1 on the Open Doors World Watch List of countries where Christians suffer the greatest persecution. The state is working hard to wipe out Christianity. Nowhere in the world is such a high price paid as in this country with its tyrannical regime. Besides this, in both North Korea and in China, North Koreans are regularly arrested. They are tortured to death or thrown into labor camps.

Despite all this, the Church is growing, Simon states on the basis of information from his networks. This is mainly due to refugees who come to faith in China and then return.

Over 2,000 years ago, God's Son came to the world. Because of His sacrifice on the cross, there is still hope for North Korea. This hope is living in countless people who are prepared—if necessary this Christmas—to give their lives for their Lord. To sign up to pray with Open Doors, for North Korea, CLICK HERE.
To find out more about Open Doors, use the Source Link provided.
Source: Jerry Dykstra – Open Doors USA

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Pray with me....

Father, I ask that you release Ha Mee's "legals" from Korea. I ask that you let ESWS (the orphanage) gather her paperwork and get it to Dillon (our agency) quickly. Let Dillon then forward the paperwork to us ASAP so we may start the next portion of the process to bring our baby home. Thank you, Father, for your perfect timing in all things. In Jesus' name, Amen.

Friday, December 14, 2007

So, what now???

Several people have been asking, so what happens now to get Ha Mee home??? Well, we have already sent our assignment papers back to our agency. A BIG thank you to the VERY kind lady at our bank who notarized over 20 pages with NO complaints!!

Our agency will forward those documents (our official acceptance) to Korea and the agency there will start the paperwork for Ha Mee's passport and official Emigration Permission from the Korean government.

While that is going on in Korea, we will be filing with our government to obtain a visa. This is a BIG step, and can potentially be lengthy, depending on how many applications the immigration office has at the time.

I plan to keep our blog as up to date as I can. I'm already praying for an unencumbered, smooth and efficient process. As we get farther into the paperwork, there will be several occasions for specific prayer, and I'll be certain to let you know when that is! Right now, we are waiting for "Legals" (official record of her birth and a statement that the agency in Korea is the child’s guardian and transfer of the guardianship to the agency in America). After we receive those, the big stuff starts!!!

Stay tuned......

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

NINE years ago today!

NINE years ago today Tim and I tied the knot, exchanged vows, got hitched, entered into Biblical covenant with each other in marriage! NINE years ~ hard to believe. I was 28, almost 29, when Tim and I married. It was a LONG process of praying, and trusting my heavenly Father to bring the right one for me. At times, I wasn't sure "he" was out there, but God, in his faithfulness, indeed introduced me to the right man.

I am so glad God intersected our lives! My love for Tim has grown incredibly deeper through these nine years. He is such a wonderful balance for me, and has helped me to grow and mature. He is a wonderful provider and a great daddy to our girls! Even though there is ups and downs, just like with everybody, I can honestly say its' been a wonderful life! Happy anniversary to us! I love you, Tim!

Friday, December 7, 2007

We have a BABY!

Oh my gracious! It's hard to believe! We have a baby GIRL!

Oh, it's all surreal to process after thinking and dreaming about the moment! OK, I was walking in my backdoor, arms loaded with groceries, when my cell phone went off in my purse. I precariously answered it leaning over the clothes dryer (only spot I've found to give a couple seconds of reception!). It was our case worker from our adoption agency! Of course I called her right back on our regular phone line and she gave me all the details. After seriously expecting a BOY, it was quite a shocker that a little girl needed us the most! Our case worker was amazed too. She said, "I don't know where all these girls are coming from! We keep telling people to expect boys, but we're getting so many girls!"

Well, she emailed Tim and I 3 pages of birth and medical information. We reviewed everything, prayed, asked for counsel, and were filled with so much peace and excitement! Tim asked our girls if a little sister was OK instead of the little brother they had been thinking about.... the vote was unanimous! When we got to see her photos, we were all smitten! WOW! We think she's just adorable!

Introducing our new daughter, Ha Mee. Born June 11, 2007 in South Korea!

The earliest photo we have of Ha Mee.


Ha Mee



Ha Mee with her foster mother, Mrs. Lee.

One of the coolest things.... Ha Mee's referral call came December 5, my Daddy's birthday! He loved to give gifts to others on his own birthday. This year we got the best gift of all, Ha Mee.

Of course we can't wait to get her home. In my next post I'll tell you how all that happens and what you can do to PRAY her through!

Thanks for sharing in our excitement!

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

Book report.....





Which person of the Godhead do you feel you can relate to the most??? Is it the Son- Jesus, the Holy Spirit, the Father God???

I recently finished this book, Experiencing the Father's Embrace; Finding Acceptance in the arms of a Loving God, by author Jack Frost. If you're wanting to understand your Father God in a deeper way - this book is for you. There's even a workbook available if you'd enjoy doing it with others as well.

One of my favorite quotes/prayer in the book: "Father, how can I receive Your love and then give it away to the next person I meet?"

Here is an exerpt from the back cover:

"Forget everything you've ever heard about love, and get ready to experince a life-changing introduction to Father God's unconditional love. It's the kind of love that changes everything - forever. Untie yourself from religious duty. Learn how to "be" in God's plan and His presence! You'll be motivated and challenged to pursue unconditional expressed love and place it high abouve any other human emotion. And then the fun begins!"

Put it on your Christmas with list!!!

Sunday, December 2, 2007

Oh, rescue me!!!

Gracious day! OK, the week of Thanksgiving Callie got sinusitis! It was the sickest I think she has been yet in her short life!!! She was soooo miserable! (but, oh my goodness, the DRAMA it inspired; Wowsers!!!) Well, now she's on the mend but has seemingly passed it along to me. I have a huge, stuffy head!!! AND, Claire woke up a couple of nights ago burning with fever!! Oh dear!!!


Thankfully, our dear pediatrian gave me a refill on Callie's antibiotic just in case she passed it along to Claire. (how cool was that!) Hopefully she won't have it as bad. Me, though, I'm sleeping with the humidifier instead of my sweet hubby, and have tissue boxes stratigically placed around the house! I certainly can't complain, though! We seem to have very little illness around here!